Hi,
This is my first post here, after being a married woman. For those who don't know me, I am a young, smart, beautiful, married women of age 25. I was working in two multi-national companies in the past 3 years, and then I found my soulmate, who have actually become my soul and heart ( a happy wink). I resigned from my job and flewww with him to America.
As of now I am a housewife and somebody who loves to change its definition. Like any housewife, I cook for my husband (which I love doing), clean and arrange the house, wash clothes and etc etc. I do enjoy all this, but I am someone who hates to leave that young free girl in me - who is carefree, and fun and carry a head full of great and weird ideas. When I reached America, all I do for the whole day was cook, clean, watch movies and sleep. And this normal pattern of life and thinking made myself look uninteresting to me. I wanted to come back to that time when I was a fan of myself. And yes!!!! I am there now with few changes in my life, which I am going to share with you all (smile)..
Every girl has their own dreams and plans. A girl starts loving herself and gets confidence by achieving those dreams and by meeting those plans. By dreams, I do not mean getting married and having babies. For me, dreams are something that take you to a place where you are noticed, happy, comfortable and appreciated. That is the place where every girl or women find happiness and peace.
Hence I found few helpful ways to achieve those - things that will make you happy, confident, and by all means help you enjoy your life.
Hobbies
At the age of five, when I wrote a composition about hobbies, I never thought the strength and power of it in our lives. A hobby is common in everyone's life, everyone will have one or other things that interests them in their pastime. But why not use yours in a different way. It can be used to get compliments, appreciations, money or it can be used to help others too. It can be writing a blog, reading a book for your grandparents, gardening experiments, cooking experiments etc etc. Make sure you get to improve and learn from your hobbies. Use your hobby in a particular way so that it helps yourself or others. This will really bring wonderful changes in your life. I promise!!! (smile)
GET OUT
Never ever leave a chance to go out (wink). And go out alone in between. There isn't a girl who doesn't enjoy shopping (esp. window shopping if its month end) . Just wear your favorite jeans and top or any dress that gives you confidence and get out of your house. Go to your favorite place, it can be a park or a mall or a beautiful housing colony. Walk alone with your head high and with a " I know am smart and I love it" attitude. This doesn't mean you should always go alone, as I said in the beginning of the paragraph "in between". Other times go for a romantic outing with your husband or boyfriend (if unmarried (wink)), or a friendly outing with your best friends and do some healthy gossiping (wink again). I always enjoyed a walk with my best friend in a beautiful housing colony nearby. We named it "Happy Colony" , because it used to magically change our mood to Happiness.
Talk
Talk to your loved ones. Share the jokes, sorrows and worries. Your call might bring happiness to somebody, for some people it might be a consolation, or some call can be for sharing jokes and happiness. Talking to your family and friends always brings love and happiness in you. It will be the same for them too. I enjoy talking to my circle of friends and family. Because it makes both of us feel loved, remembered and happy. Just try this one, and enjoy the moment.
Be Honest
Guys, this the most important part. Learn to say the word "No" when it is required. If anyone is asking you to do something that you don't like or something that makes you uncomfortable, please do specify that you don't like it and also you don't entertain this in future. This wont break your relationship with that person, if they belong in your life or if they actually like you. Doing things that you hate creates a lot of stress in you and have the power to make you unhappy and sick. Allow only a limited people to make decisions for you, allow only few to warn you or scold you. And this few people should be the ones who always think the best for you. It can be your Mom, your sister, your husband, your brother, friends or anyone, any person whom you have believed or whom you can trust till death.
Prayer
Do you pray? Yes most of pray everyday. Why not make a change in the way you pray and what you pray? Why don't you fill your prayer with gratitude and love? Believe me, a prayer that is full of gratitude and love can do wonders to your life. When you pray, thank God for all the great things that he has done for you. It can be your life partner, your siblings, your new car, your new job or it can be for a new pencil too. Also, pray for others who needs help and who are suffering. Praying for others make you a beautiful person and this is something which only a good human being can do. Yes, you can still continue with your poojas and gatherings. Along with that try talking to God for yourself and for others and thus create a bond with Him.
Exercise
A human body is not designed to sit or be in one position for a long time. It needs movements and actions and patting at times. Exercise is like a loving hug to your body and soul. A peaceful, slow Yoga session can change your whole day to perfection. It reduces the stress level in you and opens your mind to new ideas and thus make you a lively person. It increases the positivity in you, which is an important ingredient every women should add in their lives. It balances your body and soul, which is very important for a happy life. I find a peaceful yoga session more helpful than the other vigorous exercises, but you may choose the one that makes you happy and balanced.
These are some small tips from me, which can help you change your life and make it interesting. Am not a professional in this, but notes from someone's life is always best than a fiction.
Thanks for going through my Blog
This is my first post here, after being a married woman. For those who don't know me, I am a young, smart, beautiful, married women of age 25. I was working in two multi-national companies in the past 3 years, and then I found my soulmate, who have actually become my soul and heart ( a happy wink). I resigned from my job and flewww with him to America.
As of now I am a housewife and somebody who loves to change its definition. Like any housewife, I cook for my husband (which I love doing), clean and arrange the house, wash clothes and etc etc. I do enjoy all this, but I am someone who hates to leave that young free girl in me - who is carefree, and fun and carry a head full of great and weird ideas. When I reached America, all I do for the whole day was cook, clean, watch movies and sleep. And this normal pattern of life and thinking made myself look uninteresting to me. I wanted to come back to that time when I was a fan of myself. And yes!!!! I am there now with few changes in my life, which I am going to share with you all (smile)..
Every girl has their own dreams and plans. A girl starts loving herself and gets confidence by achieving those dreams and by meeting those plans. By dreams, I do not mean getting married and having babies. For me, dreams are something that take you to a place where you are noticed, happy, comfortable and appreciated. That is the place where every girl or women find happiness and peace.
Hence I found few helpful ways to achieve those - things that will make you happy, confident, and by all means help you enjoy your life.
Hobbies
At the age of five, when I wrote a composition about hobbies, I never thought the strength and power of it in our lives. A hobby is common in everyone's life, everyone will have one or other things that interests them in their pastime. But why not use yours in a different way. It can be used to get compliments, appreciations, money or it can be used to help others too. It can be writing a blog, reading a book for your grandparents, gardening experiments, cooking experiments etc etc. Make sure you get to improve and learn from your hobbies. Use your hobby in a particular way so that it helps yourself or others. This will really bring wonderful changes in your life. I promise!!! (smile)
GET OUT
Never ever leave a chance to go out (wink). And go out alone in between. There isn't a girl who doesn't enjoy shopping (esp. window shopping if its month end) . Just wear your favorite jeans and top or any dress that gives you confidence and get out of your house. Go to your favorite place, it can be a park or a mall or a beautiful housing colony. Walk alone with your head high and with a " I know am smart and I love it" attitude. This doesn't mean you should always go alone, as I said in the beginning of the paragraph "in between". Other times go for a romantic outing with your husband or boyfriend (if unmarried (wink)), or a friendly outing with your best friends and do some healthy gossiping (wink again). I always enjoyed a walk with my best friend in a beautiful housing colony nearby. We named it "Happy Colony" , because it used to magically change our mood to Happiness.
Talk
Talk to your loved ones. Share the jokes, sorrows and worries. Your call might bring happiness to somebody, for some people it might be a consolation, or some call can be for sharing jokes and happiness. Talking to your family and friends always brings love and happiness in you. It will be the same for them too. I enjoy talking to my circle of friends and family. Because it makes both of us feel loved, remembered and happy. Just try this one, and enjoy the moment.
Be Honest
Guys, this the most important part. Learn to say the word "No" when it is required. If anyone is asking you to do something that you don't like or something that makes you uncomfortable, please do specify that you don't like it and also you don't entertain this in future. This wont break your relationship with that person, if they belong in your life or if they actually like you. Doing things that you hate creates a lot of stress in you and have the power to make you unhappy and sick. Allow only a limited people to make decisions for you, allow only few to warn you or scold you. And this few people should be the ones who always think the best for you. It can be your Mom, your sister, your husband, your brother, friends or anyone, any person whom you have believed or whom you can trust till death.
Prayer
Do you pray? Yes most of pray everyday. Why not make a change in the way you pray and what you pray? Why don't you fill your prayer with gratitude and love? Believe me, a prayer that is full of gratitude and love can do wonders to your life. When you pray, thank God for all the great things that he has done for you. It can be your life partner, your siblings, your new car, your new job or it can be for a new pencil too. Also, pray for others who needs help and who are suffering. Praying for others make you a beautiful person and this is something which only a good human being can do. Yes, you can still continue with your poojas and gatherings. Along with that try talking to God for yourself and for others and thus create a bond with Him.
Exercise
A human body is not designed to sit or be in one position for a long time. It needs movements and actions and patting at times. Exercise is like a loving hug to your body and soul. A peaceful, slow Yoga session can change your whole day to perfection. It reduces the stress level in you and opens your mind to new ideas and thus make you a lively person. It increases the positivity in you, which is an important ingredient every women should add in their lives. It balances your body and soul, which is very important for a happy life. I find a peaceful yoga session more helpful than the other vigorous exercises, but you may choose the one that makes you happy and balanced.
These are some small tips from me, which can help you change your life and make it interesting. Am not a professional in this, but notes from someone's life is always best than a fiction.
Thanks for going through my Blog
