I have always felt that someone guides me to happiness. Whenever I am in a bad phase of life or whenever I feel like losing myself ,some invisible energy helps me to find peace and love. I never thought of it this way, but something that happened today gave me a lot of happiness and love. I was sitting in my bedroom trying to ward off the negative thoughts rushing into my mind. I was desperately trying to find a way to make my life better. I was feeling bad that I have to adjust to so many selfish and stupid people around me. Then "it" happened....
My Gratitude book fell from the small table in my bedroom. In my Gratitude book, i give thanks to everything beautiful happened on that day. My Moms picture sits on the same table and I felt like she was reminding me to be thankful to many things that I have right now with me. I have education, I can talk to anyone without fear, I am confident, I have very loving and supportive friends, I can drive....and the list goes on.
When there are difficult people in your life and when you have to endure such people, you tend to lose your peace and happiness. The only way to get your happiness and peace back is to learn to ignore them and stay away from them. Few things that can help you with this is
1. Accept that they are never going to change.
2. Accept that they will always irritate you to bring out the bad in you.
3. Sympathize with such a person for being so low in character.
4. Ignore their games.
5. Avoid spending time with them as much as you can
6. Learn to enjoy your life.
Sometimes in life you have to let fools play their game and watch it from outside. This will prove to yourself that, you are matured enough to not join them and you are not fool enough to stop them.
Thanks Mom for making me think today and for helping me concentrate on my life and happiness. Thanks for showing that you are there with me.
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